Forget Pinterest: Here’s How to Style a Wedding That’s True to You
When it comes to planning your wedding, it’s easy to get swept up in a sea of Pinterest boards, Instagram reels, and trending hashtags. But here’s the thing: your wedding day isn’t about recreating someone else’s vision—it’s about celebrating who you are as a couple. At Ruby & James, we believe that the best weddings are the ones that feel authentic, personal, and true to you. Here’s how to make it happen.
1. Start with Your Story
Every couple has a story, and your wedding day is the perfect opportunity to tell it. Think about what makes your relationship unique—the places you’ve traveled together, the hobbies you share, or the inside jokes that make you laugh. Incorporate those elements into your styling, from personalized signage to custom cocktails that reflect your favorite drinks.
Need inspiration? Check out our portfolio to see how we’ve helped other couples bring their stories to life.
2. Rethink Traditions
Just because something is traditional doesn’t mean it has to be part of your day. Maybe you’re not into tossing the bouquet or cutting a cake. That’s okay! Focus on the traditions that feel meaningful to you and let go of the rest.
We’ve styled weddings where couples swapped traditional ceremonies for intimate vows under the stars or replaced formal dining with a lively food truck setup. Your wedding should reflect your values and priorities, not someone else’s expectations.
3. Choose a Palette That Speaks to You
Color palettes are a powerful way to set the tone for your wedding. But instead of defaulting to what’s trendy, think about what colors make you feel happy and connected. Do you love earthy tones that remind you of weekend hikes? Or perhaps vibrant hues that reflect your bold personalities?
Our wedding styling services can help you explore options that resonate with your vision while staying cohesive and polished.
4. Make It Comfortable
Your wedding day should feel as good as it looks. Prioritize the comfort of you and your guests by thinking through practical details—like cozy lounge areas, weather-appropriate setups, or personalized favors that show you care. A wedding that’s true to you is one where everyone feels welcome and at ease.
5. Work with Stylists Who Get It
One of the best ways to create a wedding that’s true to you is to collaborate with a styling team who understands your vision. At Ruby & James, we specialize in turning your ideas into a cohesive, beautiful reality. Whether you’re dreaming of a boho backyard celebration or a modern industrial affair, we’re here to bring it to life.
Explore our services here and get in touch to start planning your dream day.
Your wedding should feel like a reflection of who you are, not a copy of someone else’s Pinterest board. By focusing on what matters most to you, you’ll create a day that’s as meaningful as it is memorable. Ready to design a wedding that’s true to you? Let’s make it happen.
